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Couples That Scare Together: Our Favourite Freaky Roleplays
By Alex & Jen
Every couple has their version of “Netflix and chill.” Ours? “Netflix and… costume change.”
It started last Halloween. Jen went as a vampire; latex, fangs, the lot, and I, being predictably boring, went as her victim. The night started with fake blood and ended with real bite marks (the good kind). A few drinks later, we realised we’d accidentally stumbled into one of the most fun things we’d ever done together: role play.
That one silly idea turned into something we now look forward to every October. Because honestly, there’s something kind of magic about pretending to be someone else for the night.
Why Roleplay Works (and Why Halloween’s the Best Time to Try It)
When you step into a role – whether it’s vampire and victim or boss and assistant, you also step out of your usual routines. Suddenly, all the things that feel awkward or off-limits in day-to-day life don’t apply anymore.
It’s not about being a great actor; it’s about curiosity. Roleplay lets you explore different dynamics, who leads, who teases, who gives in. It’s about laughing together, surprising each other, and maybe discovering a side of yourself you didn’t know existed.
And Halloween is perfect for it. Everyone’s already dressing up, trying on new characters, and getting a little mischievous. It gives you cover – and confidence – to experiment.
Our Favourite Halloween Roleplay Ideas
We’ve tried quite a few, but these are the ones that stuck (sometimes literally).
1. Vampire & Victim
Classic, dramatic, and endlessly fun. Fangs, red lips, a few well-placed “bite marks”… it’s equal parts sexy and ridiculous. The fun comes from the chase — one of you in control, the other pretending to resist.
Try pairing it with a long dark robe or lingerie with red accents. A flickering candle or a red light bulb adds instant atmosphere.
2. Teacher & Student
Cliché? Absolutely. But clichés exist for a reason. You can keep it playful – a “lesson” on body confidence, maybe or go for a more serious power-dynamic fantasy. The trick is setting a clear boundary beforehand so it stays fun and safe for both of you.
3. Detective & Suspect
One of our go-tos. You can make it as cheeky or dramatic as you like. Interrogate each other, ask leading questions, “search” for clues… and eventually find what you’re looking for.
A simple prop like a fake badge or handcuffs (or better yet, soft bondage cuffs) helps set the scene.
4. Ghost & Séance-Leader
Our weirdest one, but surprisingly intimate. One of you pretends to “summon” the other, whispering or touching lightly to “connect.” It’s more sensual than it sounds; the slow build, the whispers, the anticipation.
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5 Tips for Trying Roleplay for the First Time
If you’ve never done it before, the idea can feel cringey. We’ve been there. But it really doesn’t have to be. Here’s what helped us get started:
- Keep it simple. You don’t need an elaborate costume or full script. One prop or outfit change can be enough to spark imagination.
- Talk first. Agree on boundaries. Decide what’s off-limits and what you’re both open to exploring.
- Lean into the laughter. If you crack up mid-scene, great. That’s connection. The point is to have fun, not win an Oscar.
- Set the mood. Lighting changes everything. Try candles, red bulbs, or soft ambient light. Music helps too — anything that makes the space feel separate from everyday life.
- Add toys or lingerie to match the fantasy. Props make it more immersive. Start with a lingerie set or costume that makes you feel confident, or try a couples toy to heighten the connection.
The Real Magic: What Roleplay Actually Does for a Relationship
Underneath the jokes and the costumes, something deeper happens. Roleplay breaks routine. It brings curiosity and playfulness back into relationships that might have slipped into autopilot.
When you explore a fantasy together, you’re communicating in a different language — one that’s physical, creative, and trusting. You’re saying, I want to know more about you, and that’s powerful.
For us, it’s become less about the fantasy and more about what it does after. We end up talking more openly, flirting more, touching more. It’s like pressing reset on the connection.
So this Halloween, instead of pumpkin spice lattes and scary movies, try a new kind of thrill. Put on a costume, dim the lights, and see what happens when you stop being yourselves for a while.
Who knows — you might find out that the freakiest thing about roleplay isn’t the costume. It’s how honest it makes you.
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