Dildos
Thrusting Dildo Vibrator
Realistic Pale Dong 7 Inch
Pink Veined Vibrator 9 Inch
8 Inch Realistic Dong Black
Pink Dong Vibrator 9 Inch
Thrusting Dildo Massage Gun
Realistic Dong Dark 6 Inch
Clear Courgette Dildo 6 Inch
Clear Double-Ended Dildo
Inflatable Realistic Cock
Double Ender Dong 12.5 Inch
HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FIRST DILDO
Not sure where to start? You’re not alone — it’s one of the questions our in-store team gets asked most. After 25 years selling sex toys across 17 UK stores, here’s the honest advice we give every day.
Start smaller than you think. The average UK penis size is 5–6 inches, and that’s a solid benchmark for a first dildo. Going too large too soon can be uncomfortable and put you off entirely — there’s no rush, and you can always size up later.
Silicone is the safest starting material. It’s body-safe, non-porous, easy to clean, and soft enough to be forgiving for beginners. TPE is a budget-friendly alternative, though it requires more careful cleaning. Glass and metal are brilliant once you know what you enjoy — firm, hygienic, and great for temperature play — but they’re less forgiving if you’re still finding your preferences.
Always use lubricant. Even with smooth materials like silicone or glass, lube makes the experience more comfortable and more enjoyable. Use water-based lube with silicone toys to avoid damaging the material.
Not sure in person? Visit any of our 17 stores across the UK — our team are knowledgeable, non-judgmental, and genuinely love helping people find the right toy.
A dildo is a non-vibrating toy designed primarily for penetration. A vibrator uses motorised vibrations to stimulate — internally, externally, or both. Some toys blur the line by combining a phallic shape with vibration, but if it doesn’t vibrate, it’s a dildo. If you want penetration with added stimulation, a vibrating dildo gives you both.
For most beginners, 5–6 inches in length and a modest girth is a comfortable starting point — roughly average UK penis size. Opt for something with a smooth shaft and soft material like silicone rather than anything heavily textured or curved. You can always explore larger sizes or more specialised shapes once you know what feels good.
Body-safe silicone is the gold standard — it’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, easy to sterilise, and widely used. Borosilicate glass and stainless steel are also fully body-safe and exceptionally easy to clean. Avoid cheap jelly or PVC toys that don’t specify body-safe materials, as these can contain phthalates and are porous, making them impossible to fully sanitise.
Yes, but only if the toy has a flared base or retrieval cord. The anal canal can draw objects inward, so a toy without a flared base is genuinely unsafe for anal use. Never use a toy vaginally and anally without cleaning it thoroughly in between — or use a condom over it — to prevent the spread of bacteria.
Wash with warm water and mild soap after every use. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, and metal can be boiled or run through a dishwasher (top rack, no detergent) for full sterilisation. Store toys in a breathable pouch or individual bag to prevent materials reacting with each other. Keep away from direct sunlight and extreme heat.